Red

I don’t know what greeted me first, your red hair or your smile.

My walk today, full of spring, was my remembrance to and of you. The pictures of our childhood are boxed up, ready for our move.  It’s almost like a shadow of memories stored away for another time.  You were like a big brother at a distance back then.  Our houses separated by a caliche road.

Our adventures on 2nd Street with all of us sporting jean shorts, no shirt, and no shoes, me included, involved bicycles and dirt.  You and your big brother and all your rowdy friends, I never could keep up.  On occasion, you would look back or check on me but always doing it without them being aware.  Softy.  It dripped from you.  You can see it in the pictures with your beautiful wife, children, grandchildren and friends.

The last exchange we shared, just recent, was brief but essential in my acquiescing your departure on this earth.  A warm hug, pleasant sundries, but full of genuine engagement.  The cadence of your laugh was endearing and is enduring.

Once I was 7 Years Old…

 

Yes, once we were 7 years old…

Going back and looking at what was going on in our world, whatever time period your 7ish self was in, the exposure and accumulation of good or bad conditions and the effect it has on us because…  Soon I will be 60 years old… as the song goes.

Music has always been a part of my life and has brought Peace to me in many forms.   Music has been there for me sometimes when nothing else could be, whether it was listening to music, playing an instrument or reading the lyrics of a songwriter. Oh, and the genre’s I was exposed to…. Andy Williams, Perry Como, Frank Sinatra, Johnny Mathis, Nat King Cole … all Crooners.  And then there were the genre’s of my sisters… Bob Dylan, The Animals, The Rolling Stones, The Beatles, Sonny and Cher, The Kinks, The Lovin’ Spoonful, The Mamas and the Papas, Janis Joplin, Joni Mitchell, Blood Sweat and Tears, Roberta Flack, David Bowie…. Gee! and there’s so much more I could list! And then there was MY music… Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo, The Bare Necessities, Trust In Me… all these being Disney movie songs and many more that I would play over and over on my little 45 turn table.  I finally got to start taking piano lessons when I entered the 3rd Grade.  Mrs. Lindsay introduced me to Classical Music which added to the rich mix of genre’s I haved loved over the years. Oh, the Piano Recitals and the School Programs… this is where I began getting nervous which was a new emotion to me.  The new emotion of fear and lack of Peace began around this age.

Nutrition looked a little different at 7 years old compared to my younger years.  Being in school, cafeteria food was introduced to me and compared to what the majority of children are given in today’s current culture it was fairly nutritious.  We weren’t given a whole lot of choices and Pizza and French Fries were not considered a vegetable as they are currently in our Public school system.  Some references to listen to are the podcast The Doctor’s Farmacy with Mark Hyman, M.D., Episodes – ‘How To Fix Nutrition In Schools with Kimbal Musk’, ‘Corruption In The Food Industry And The Challenge With Our Dietary Guidelines’, ‘How Is The Food Our Kids Are Eating Affecting Their Behavior?’ and The Brain Science Behind Social Conflict And Depression with Drs. David and Austin Perlmutter.’

Hydration – In my previous Post I talked briefly about the effects of Fluoride on our bodies.  Now I want to talk about Chlorine being added to our water supply as well.  Again, the intention of this additive was for the good, to kill bacteria, but the effects to our body can be extremely harmful.  An article to read for further information is on The Candida Diet website titled ‘How Does Chlorine Affect Your Immune System?’ It gives thorough information on this topic.

Movement – At 7 my movement consisted of, again, playing outside.  We usually had 2 recess breaks and had a few minutes after lunch while in school.  Now, children are outside less and less while in school.  Not only is this a Movement issue but a lack of Vitamin D exposure that is necessary that both help with sleep.  During the summers there were long days of swimming, which was great for the Movement but bad for the chlorine exposure.  There were family reunions in the park, the Rodeo which had a parade that kids either rode a horse or decorated their bikes to ride in, and the Barbecue down in the park.

After examining your 7 year old self, ask the question of what you were exposed to chronically in the 4 areas of Peace, Nutrition, Hydration, and Movement.  If you are experiencing a lack of wellness, going back looking at these areas can lead to the Root cause of your issues.

 

Growing up Small Town USA – Childhood

Running around our close-knit neighborhood, riding my tricycle, playing in the red dirt sand pile under the willow tree are the pictures that float around in my memory bank from my childhood.  Popping tar bubbles in the middle of the street with no concern for cars running over you, going around asking the moms of the block, “What are ya’ll having for dinner?” in case they were having something better than at our house.  They all finally figured it out after being concerned I wasn’t being fed and called my Mom.  “Liver and Onions” became their answer.

 

 

95% of disease that plague Americans are Lifestyle related.  How can what was just described be a lifestyle issue?

There are many positive Lifestyle situations that went on in my childhood from growing up ‘Small Town’, but the negatives–most were intended for positive–are what I want to explore.  But first lets talk positive….

Chaos and Stress were not a part of my childhood.  The Peace was there.  I always felt loved and secure.  All of the families that I knew went to church, whether it was the one I attended or one of the other 5 in this Small Town. When spending the night with my Paternal Grandparents, the day ended with us all gathering around the coffee table, getting down on our knees and saying a prayer after a Bible reading. I remember crawling up in bed with my Mom at night to read a devotional page in a little booklet called The Upper Room.  People, to me, seemed happy and friendly overall.  And being the youngest of 4 girls, I knew I was sheltered from the stress and chaos of the ’60’s.

Movement was definitely part of my everyday life.  When you learned to walk, you went outside.  There were neighborhood football games, climbing trees, and going to the swimming pool for the whole day.  My older sisters were in a Volleyball program which had 10 State Championships in a row in the 60’s and 70’s, so I saw from example or was involved with Movement from an early age.

Now let’s explore some of the negatives….

Hydration was never talked about in my childhood.  We got a drink when we were thirsty and if you were outside it came through a hose.  But here is what was lurking in the water we were drinking.  Fluoride.  In 1945, Fluoride was introduced into public water supplies of much of the U.S. to help prevent cavities.  Many of the kids in my Small Town had stains on their teeth, especially those that were my older siblings age.  I will not go into detail about this. There is a great article on Dr. Axe’s website titled ‘Is Fluoride Bad for You? It’s Not Just in the Water’ if you would like further information.  I know this was one of the factors in the beginning of my Leaky Gut Syndrome, which came on later in life.  We now buy 100% Natural Spring Water.

Let’s look at what was going on in the early ’60’s in Nutrition. My day usually started with a bowl of Frosted Flakes and Bananas sitting in front of the TV watching Captain Kangaroo, oblivious of my Mom trying to corral the 3 older girls like a herd of kittens to get them to school on time.  Lunch was usually a Ham sandwich with Miracle Whip on a piece of Mrs. Baird’s White Bread and Lay’s Potato Chips. Occasionally for variety, I might have a Deviled Ham sandwich or Pimento Cheese.  Sundays consisted of a roast cooked in an electric skillet while we were in church, and it usually had the consistency of Beef Jerky.  Mom has many talents, but cooking …. hmmm just wasn’t one of them. I don’t know if it was just my house or something to do with the time I was being raised, but whatever was put in front of you, you ate or you went hungry.  The negatives going on here….Processed foods, Genetically Modified Organism foods, Iron fortified foods, the SAD (Standard American Diet) or MAD (Modern American Diet) had taken off like a rocket. A book that I was introduced to about 5 years ago, titled Wheat Belly by William Davis MD, is a resource if you want more information on the changes which helped bring about the Standard American Diet. It really is SAD! And it makes me MAD!

These are just a sprinkle of things going on during my early childhood. I share these memories in hope that it will spur you to look back at your own. Maybe it wasn’t a peaceful place you grew up in, or maybe you grew up in the city. Regardless, recall your daily diet habits, look at your activity level, what kind of water were you exposed to, and consider other forms of toxicity in your surroundings.

Next Post will be Growing Up Small Town USA – Adolescence

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Never Despise Small Beginnings

When is it ever the Right Time to start something?

My Wellness Journey began about 5 years ago. It is when I became truly serious about my overall wellbeing.  There were signs long before that made me want to seek answers to questions about why were so many of my family, friends and even myself being diagnosed with a whole spectrum of diseases.  I watched my Dad go from an active Rancher, involved Grandad pass away from Colon Cancer in 15 months of being diagnosed.  I saw one of my offspring struggle with gut issues way before the word “gluten” was understood.  One of my siblings was diagnosed with Parkinson’s and just a few years later another sibling diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia, Parkinson’s, and a brain tumor.  I went to classmates funerals dying way before their time. And then, I was diagnosed with Hashimoto’s – this country’s fastest growing autoimmune disease.  The questions were hammering constantly, soberly.

This Journey that I share is not about me having the answers, but seeking answers, sharing what’s worked for me, what hasn’t worked for me, and hearing your stories on your Journey to Wellness.

So, this is where I began… taking small steps in 5 areas that I call by Big Rocks.

Peace: Journaling for at least 15 to 30 minutes morning or evening

Nutrition: Eating God made food

Hydration: Drinking Water

Movement: Walk for at least 15 to 30 minutes preferably outdoors

Therapeutics: Seeking additional helps such as Protocols/Supplements/Therapy for my specific needs

*Bear with me – I’m experimenting with different media settings to see what will be a fit

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